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- When “Trying” Doesn’t Work – A Lesson On Letting Go
You know when people say – “oh that couple is trying right now.” Okay, the more that I think about this word the weirder it looks. Why do they even use this word for attempting to accomplish the conception of a baby? Well it turns out for some couples that getting pregnant doesn’t always happen in the blink of an eye. Is it possible that YOU constantly thinking in your mind right now how hard you are trying is exactly what is pushing it away? (This concept applies to SO many things in life). - Why “Just Follow Your Heart” Is Confusing Advice
Have you ever been lost in any area of life (relationships, work, etc.) and someone tells you “just follow your heart.” And have you ever thought to yourself – what does that even mean? Does it mean follow my emotional whims? Does it mean follow my “intuition”? Does it mean follow what is true? But true for who exactly? And how can you be so sure you KNOW what your heart is telling you? - Seeking The Truth: “Red Flags” Aren’t Always What You Think
There is this current phenomenon of “spotting red flags” in people early on in a dating context. When I was dating I was certainly on high alert with people. Just waiting for the other shoe to drop, or looking out for any sign of trouble. There is certainly some truth that there are red flags to watch out for in people. And there is definitely something to be said about “going with your gut.” - 6 Mind Hacks On How To Ease Your Fears When You Go Out In Public
Does anyone else share the irrational fear that you might see someone you know when you are running your daily errands? Dun dun dun. Lately, I have been noticing that every time I go out in public – I suddenly become worried. It’s funny because as I have grown older my fear keeps growing. I used to be so carefree and open to spontaneous conversation. Now here I am – lacking confidence. - How To Feel Unstuck When You Are Hating Your Job
Feeling trapped. Looking at the clock… Looking at the clock again… Wondering how people can actually do this for 20 plus years of their life. Then also thinking, those people are the real heroes… I’m just the loser who can’t stick to one thing in my life. Thinking – I’m a horrible person and someone else deserves this job more than me. But I can’t just quit my job – I’m an adult now with bills to pay. - The Censorship Pattern – How Belief Systems Limit Us
Have you ever suppressed saying certain things in the workplace for the sake of “professionalism”? Have you ever held back from questioning authority because that might cause a threat to your security? Have you ever avoided saying what you really think for sake of keeping the peace in a relationship? Have you been surrounded by people who have different beliefs than you, and you held back on telling them what you believe just to fit in? - 7 Powerful Ways to Live a Life “On Purpose” – From An Insightful Professor
7 powerful ways to live a life “on purpose” from an insightful professor. Everyone has their own perspectives on what it means to find your purpose. To me the biggest game changer was not seeking my purpose. But rather, finding the things in life that make me feel “ON PURPOSE.” Tons of people these days are pondering “what IS my purpose?” in relation to their job search or life path. - A Simple Pre-marriage Personality Checklist: How Your Results Will Bring Happiness And Surprises
Do you think you already know your partner very well? Or do you believe you may benefit from an easy pre-marriage personality checklist? If you are recently engaged, or if you just want to know your partner a little better – you may benefit from doing this exercise. I also would like to personally share why I was happy (and surprised) about my results. - The “Salt of the Earth” Husband – The Power Of Prayer In Finding Love
I didn’t realize how praying helped my love life until I rediscovered an old voice memo. In this voice memo I am essentially praying to find my future husband. A husband who resembles a “Salt of the Earth” kind of man. - The Hidden Woman – The Art of Childbearing and Motherhood
Since I have become a married woman, I have started to have some fears around having a baby. Personally, I don’t know how to think about childbearing. When discussing this with my own mother, she seems not to understand why I have such a fear. - The True Message of “The Fear of Missing Out.”
“The Fear of Missing Out” is rooted in our belief systems, creating an unpleasant emotion when we desire what we don’t have. Reflecting on personal experiences—whether craving fast food as a child, envying travel on social media, considering relocating, or questioning a relationship—I discover that the fear-driven pursuit often leads to the realization that the coveted experiences may not offer true satisfaction. - Is It Love Or Just Obsession? 7 Essential Questions To Ask Yourself
Obsession is often mistaken for love, creating immense confusion in relationships. This misconception is rooted in cultural conditioning from childhood, manifesting as a compulsive fixation on someone perceived as The One. - What is the Truth About Anger?
What is the truth about anger? Anger often masks underlying fears, such as abandonment or loss, and may be a defense mechanism rather than a genuine expression. The book “The Courage to Be Disliked” suggests anger is a form of intimidation or “fabrication” for control. - How Being Quiet Changed My Perspective: 7 Unexpected Reasons
Shutting my mouth more? – I am a self-proclaimed talkative person, advocating the merits of speaking less, outlining benefits such as avoiding regrettable statements, developing patience and self-control, thinking before speaking, cultivating mystery, improving observational skills, and building trust. - “The Right Fit”: 6 Ways Finding A Wedding Dress Is Just Like Finding Your Soulmate
Choosing a wedding dress taught me valuable lessons on decision-making, similar to choosing a partner. Being open to change, valuing comfort without settling, looking for a suitable fit that can be adjusted, seeking a balanced maturity, trusting one’s own judgment despite others’ opinions, and not stopping until it feels right—these insights from dress-shopping mirrored the search for a true partner. - Compatibility vs. Chemistry in Relationships – Which Is More Valuable?
Compatibility vs. Chemistry in Relationships – which is more valuable? In dating, one often encounters either chemistry without compatibility or vice versa. Chemistry involves emotional and physical attraction, often with people who are different from us, and can be fleeting. Compatibility involves understanding and acceptance of each other’s core values and is essential for a relationship’s longevity. - How A Naturopathic Doctor Helped Heal My Heart
How a Naturopathic Doctor changed my heart? – I sought emotional healing and stumbled upon Heartland Family Wellness Centre. Dr. Lisa Graham’s unique approach to health, combining hydrotherapy, acupuncture, and profound life guidance, brought significant emotional relief and long-term healing. - Uncovering The Hidden Truths Of The Self Improvement Industry
Downsides to self improvement – I experienced society’s relentless push to ‘be better’—a pursuit that often led to self-dissatisfaction. My epiphany came when I realized gratitude and acceptance are the antidotes to this insatiable quest. - Independence: The Ultimate Coping Mechanism For Women
Being an Independent Woman Is a Way to Cope – I realized this by reflecting on my journey from feeling like an independent woman, due to first impressions, to embracing the term “interdependent.” - Your Inner Alchemist: 5 Strengths That Highly Sensitive People Need To Be Reminded Of
Five Tips on How to Alchemize Your Sensitivity – For highly sensitive people. I reflect on my struggle with being a highly sensitive person, viewing it as a challenge and a gift. I explore five strengths of sensitivity, such as heightened awareness, creativity, empathy, emotional depth, and the potential to uplift others. - Unlock The Secrets: 6 Key Insights To A Long-lasting Relationship
6 Key Insights On What Makes A Relationship Last – I have always been fascinated by this topic, dedicating my life to understanding what makes them succeed or fail. Through observation and questioning couples, I’ve compiled six key insights. - Balancing Life: 10 Essential Love Vitamins For Women
The 10 Love Vitamins by John Gray – I wanted to live a more balanced life as a woman. I explored self-help, finding John Gray’s book pivotal. It advocates for attaining desires with self-agency and cherishing achievements. The “Love Vitamins” concept, detailing ten types of replenishing love, helps me counter life’s dissatisfaction. - 5 Tips On How to Approach Online Dating with Ease and Inner Security
How to do online dating? – Tips include knowing and accepting what you want, being genuine while avoiding dishonesty in others, treating initial meet-ups casually, managing expectations post-successful encounters, and continuing to explore options without rushing into exclusivity. - The Journey Of How I Found Faith In Christianity
How I became a Christian testimony – Raised without strong religious guidance, I rebelled my youth. However, in my twenties, a shift towards God occurred through “coincidences,” leading me to a naturopathic clinic. There, I encountered God-loving people and began to explore Christianity.
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